Connie Jacqueline Lalka

Connie Jacqueline Lalka, age 83, of Phenix City, Alabama, passed away on April 13, 2026, in Columbus, Georgia.

Connie was born on January 26, 1942, in Columbus, Georgia, to James B. Bray and Doris Lynn Milner Bray. She grew up with strong family values and a warm, steady spirit that remained with her throughout her life.  From an early age she developed the kindness, grace, and strength that would come to define her. She carried those qualities into every part of her life, touching the hearts of all who knew her.

Connie was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. She is survived by her husband of 59 years, Lawrence Daniel Lalka of Phenix City, Alabama; her two daughters, Nancy Sutton and her husband Bill, Jackie Dudley and her husband Menza; and her seven cherished grandchildren, Will Sutton, Ashley Sutton, Kaley Sutton, Menza Dudley III and his wife Maddie, Jack Dudley, Max Dudley, and Mason Dudley. Her family was the center of her world, and she found her greatest joy in spending time with them. Whether gathered for holidays, family meals, or simple everyday moments, Connie treasured the love and laughter that filled her home.

She was preceded in death by her parents, James Buford and Doris Lynn Milner Bray. Their memory remained an important part of her life, and she carried forward the lessons of love, hard work, and devotion that they instilled in her.

Connie worked at Fort Benning as a paralegal, where she was respected for her professionalism, reliability, and dedication. Her work reflected the same care and attention she brought to all areas of her life. She approached her responsibilities with a calm and steady presence, earning the trust and appreciation of those around her. Beyond her career, she was known for the pride she took in her home, her family, and the many simple pleasures that brightened her days.

Connie enjoyed traveling the East Coast in their RV, making memories along the way and appreciating the beauty of the journey as much as the destination. She was a devoted Auburn fan and followed with enthusiasm and loyalty. She also collected ballerina figurines, a hobby that reflected her appreciation for grace and beauty. At home, she enjoyed watching soap operas, especially The Young and the Restless and The Bold and the Beautiful, and she found comfort and companionship in the presence of her beloved dog, Belle.

A Private Family Graveside Service will be held Friday, April 17 at 11:00AM EST at Fort Mitchell National Cemetery with Father Louis LaCuadara officiating.

Connie Jacqueline Lalka leaves behind a legacy of devotion, warmth, and enduring love. Her memory will remain a blessing to her husband, children, grandchildren, extended family, and all who were fortunate enough to know her.

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